Showing posts with label Blogosphere. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Blogosphere. Show all posts

Thursday, 18 June 2009

Thoughts on the Me Generation v. Generation Me

(extended thought from blog post on the McKenzies page entitled Online Catharsis)

The baby-boomers were at one time thought to be the most self-absorbed generation in American history, and carried the label of the Me Generation. In recent years this title has been appropriated, twisted and reassigned to the babies of those same boomers - born in the 80s and 90s - now called Generation Me or the Look @ Me Generation.
Author Jean Twenge, an Associate Professor of Psychology at San Diego State University and herself a member of Generation Me - spent 10 years doing research on this group's sense of entitlement and self-absorption. She attributed it to the radical individualism that was engendered by baby-boomer parents and educators focused on instilling self-esteem in children beginning in the 1970s. American and Canadian youth were raised on aphorisms such as "express yourself" and "just be yourself."

To further illustrate her point, Twenge also found a large increase in self-reference words like "I," "me," "mine," and "myself" in news stories published in the 80s and 90s. These words replaced collective words such as "we," "us," "humanity," "country," or "crowd" found in the stories of similar nature in the 50s and 60s. This generation may be the least thoughtful, community-oriented and conscientious one in North American history.

-Information gathered from Adbusters Magazine, Nov/Dec 2008 - #80 - Volume 16, Number 6


Wednesday, 3 June 2009

Twitter Spoof Video


Kinda' makes you think twice about your next status update, huh?

Saturday, 23 February 2008

Imparting Wisdom... to Yourself

This is an entry that I'm hoping gets a lot of responses. If you're reading this from my Facebook page, come over to my barely evolved cavemen blog and leave your response (anonymously if you like) to this question:

What would you say to your 16-year-old-self if you could go back and impart some wisdom, or offer a warning, or give some advice... to you?

Monday, 26 November 2007

2000+ HITS

On May 17, 2007 I installed ClusterMaps, a hit counter that accurately shows the locations of all visitors to this site on a thumbnail map embedded in my page. You may have noticed it at the bottom of the right-hand column of my page. While I can't tell who visited my blog, I can tell where they were when they looked at it.

As of today, I've had 2,016 hits. That's around 335 hits per month. It's kind of weird to think that that many people have accessed my thoughts, opinions and perspectives. It's also kinda' cool.

Monday, 12 November 2007

Taking a Trip Down Memory Lane

I found these awesome pictures from a 1977 JCPenney catalog online and just had to post and share them. The origin of the story is that a guy found this catalog while doing some work for his parents in their attic.

For those of you that remember the days of the 3-inch-thick Sears, Best & JCPenney catalogs, this should be a special treat for you.

Here is the cover of the catalog these pictures came from:


The clothes are fantastic!

Here's how to get the crap beat out of you in elementary school:

Just look at that belt. It's like a boob-job for your pants. He probably needed help just to lift it into place. The belt loops have to be three inches long, for the love. And this kid's bellybutton must be below the belt buckle. Way to go Sargent High-Waste!

Here's how to get the crap beat out of you in high school:

This kid looks like he's pretending to be David Soul, who is pretending to be a cop who is pretending to be a pimp that everyone knows is really an undercover cop. Who is pretending to be 15.

Here's how to get the crap beat out of you on the golf course:

This "all purpose jumpsuit" is, according to the description, equally appropriate for playing golf or simply relaxing around the house. Personally, I can't see wearing this unless you happen to be relaxing around your cell in D-block. Even then, the only reason you should put this thing on is because the warden forced you to at gunpoint.

Here's how to get the crap beat out of you pretty much anywhere:

I'll bet these guys do ok with the ladies. If you look at that picture quickly, it looks like Mr. Bob "No-pants" Saget has his hand in the other guy's pocket. In this case, he doesn't, although you can tell just by looking at them that it's happened - or if it hasn't happened it will. Oh yes. It will. As soon as he puts down his color-coordinated coffee cup.

Here's how to get the crap beat out of you at the beach:

He looks like he's reaching for a gun, but you know it's probably just a bottle of suntan lotion in a holster. Isn't that The Fall Guy's sidekick?

Here's how to get the crap beat out of you in a meeting:

If you wear this suit and don't sell used cars for a living, I believe you can be fined and face serious repercussions, up to and including termination. Or imprisonment, in which case you'd be forced to wear that orange jumpsuit; which, frankly, is a step up.

Here's how to get the crap beat out of you everyday, up to and including, St. Patrick's Day:

Dear god in heaven, I don't believe that color exists in nature. There is NO excuse for wearing either of these ensembles unless you're working as a body guard for the head coach of Notre Dame.

In this next one, Your Search For VALUE Ends At Penneys.

As does your search for chest hair.

And this one... seriously, there are no words:

Oh wait, it turns out there are words after all, and those words are What. The. #%@$! I'm guessing the snap front gives you quick access to the chest hair. I think the little tie must be the pull tab. If you look really closely, it says, "In case of chest hair emergency, pull tab quickly and back away."

Also, judging by the sheer amount of matching his/hers outfits, in 1977 it was apparently considered pretty stylish for couples to dress alike. These couples look happy, don't they?




And nothing showcases your everlasting love more than the commitment of matching bathing suits. That, and an amused blonde with a look on her face that says, "Do you have any idea how ridiculous you look in that bathing suit?"


Then, after the lovin', you can relax in your one-piece matching terry cloth jumpsuits:


I could go on, but I'm tired, and my eyes hurt from this trip back in time. I think it's the colors. I will leave you with these tasteful little numbers:

Man, that's sexy!

Sunday, 23 September 2007

Tagged!

Yep, I got tagged by my good buddy, Arthur. Here are eight random facts about myself:
  1. I (also) have a hard time answering where I'm from. I was born in Alabama; moved to California when I was three; moved to Germany when I was 12; moved back to California at 16; moved to Arizona for a year, back to California, and now Scotland for the last four years. I don't have a home, but I make home wherever I am!
  2. I'm watching UFC 76 right now.
  3. Folding laundry is therapeutic for me.
  4. I make the best baked oatmeal of anyone I know... or, I like my baked oatmeal best.
  5. I'm allergic to codeine -- it's like LSD to me.
  6. The sweetest words these ears could hear (next to Jasheen saying, "I love you, Christopher," or Gabrielle saying "I love you, daddy," or Isabelle uttering anything at all) is: "Ladies and gentlemen, game 2 of our doubleheader will begin in 30 minutes."
  7. I have no problem walking out of a theater if the movie sucks... even on a date. "I'll be at Barnes & Noble, sweet-cakes. Come find me after the movie." (I know, I know... how'd I ever get married?)
  8. My high school math teacher punched me in the stomach for locking him in the bathroom. No, I didn't press charges or try to get him fired.

Saturday, 18 August 2007

How Addicted Are You?

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Things That Caught My Eye This Week

  • Republican presidential contender, Mitt Romney, made a surprising statement this week warning that withdrawing U.S. troops from Iraq too soon could be catastrophic. The general sentiment that I encounter here in Scotland is that the U.S. and Britain should terminate their war on terror and pull all the troops out. What made this even more intriguing is that I spoke with an Iraqi woman this week who has relocated to Glasgow upon marrying a British man, and she absolutely loves the George's - Sr. and Jr. She said she's so thankful for George W. Bush and all that he's doing for her country. In addition, she said that the only criticism she had of George Bush, Sr. was that during the Gulf War he pulled out too early. This got me thinking about all the positions and perspectives we have on the U.S.'s global involvement in circumstances such as this. Do we ever actually get the perspective of the people who are living in or from these countries? Or do we simply project our own ecumenical values onto the culture at hand and infuse our personal agendas into the conversation? Either way, it was both startling and refreshing to hear someone from Iraq express gratitude to our president and our nation for their part in helping her country.
  • Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows is No. 1 on USA TODAY's Best-Selling Books list for the third straight week. If history is any indication, it will be there for three more. Goblet of Fire (2000), Order of the Phoenix (2003) and Half-Blood Prince (2005) each topped the list for six weeks.
  • After an ankle injury delayed his MLS debut, David Beckham's career with the LA Galaxy started off on the right foot. He scored his first goal on a free kick in the 27th minute of the Galaxy's 2-0 victory over DC United in the SuperLiga semifinals Wednesday night. Later in the game he also became the team captain when Landon Donovan turned his armband over to Beckham. In a very humble response to the gesture Beckham responded, "I'm very honored."
  • Gabrielle Rae McKenzie came running into the kitchen after bath time stark nekkid exclaiming, "Potty, potty! Potty, daddy!" I asked if she needed to go potty and she said no. She pointed to the bathroom and again said, "Potty." Intrigued, I went to the bathroom to find her little plastic potty in the middle of the floor with something in it. Gabrielle took it upon herself to go pee-pee all by herself with no coercion from our part. I gotta' say... that really caught my eye!
  • The NFL pre-season is underway!!! Michael Vick has failed to show up to practices and games.

Friday, 3 August 2007

Woo-hoo! 1,000 Visitors and Counting!

Barely Evolved Cavemen has broken the 1,000 visitors mark, and what better way to celebrate than as a Simpsons character??? So here I am in all my yellow glory. With the exception of freckles, I was able to customize pretty well. My hair is growing out from being shaved, but there are ample lengths and styles to choose from, so look for an update as my locks return.

Simpsonizing yourself is pretty fast and easy. Go to simpsonizeme.com and submit a basic head-shot of yourself. You may have to try a few different ones because it's looking for certain contrasts and certain sizes. Then just follow the instructions to your Simpsons alter ego.

A couple of other blog-related things... check out the new links in my links section. I've added Hosoi Skateboards and Richard Mulder. Apart from being one of my childhood skateboarding idols, Christian Hosoi has an amazing story that can be seen in Rising Son, a film/documentary that chronicles his rise, fall and rebirth (both professionally and spiritually). Hosoi is an associate pastor at The Sanctuary in Westminster, CA.

I know Richard Mulder through mutual friends, Robert Lim and David Reasbeck. I've added Mulder to my links because of his intense love for God and people, particularly young skaters. Mulder has ridden for World Industries, Chocolate and Stussy, and now focuses the majority of his attention on traveling the world and sharing his faith.

Hopefully these newly added links will keep you interested and informed on what's going on in different ministries and ministry contexts around the globe.

Sunday, 3 June 2007

What did he just say?

He's as hard to understand when he speaks as he is when he sings.
Rob Zombie, on his (non)remake of John Carpenter's Halloween:

"The only reason I said I would do it was because I thought I came up with a way to do it. I didn't just do it to do it; I only did it because I feel like I really had a way to do it."

Awesome, Rob! Just Do It™

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Saturday, 26 May 2007

Pathology(n) Implants, Please

If you were to add up all of the psychological ailments that Americans complain of, the snapshot that emerges is a nation full of ninnyhammers (basket-cases, nut-jobs, psychos). Ten million suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder. Fourteen million are alcoholics. Fifteen million are pathologically socially anxious. Fifteen million are depressed. Three million suffer panic attacks. Ten million have Borderline personality disorder. Twelve million have "restless legs." Five million are obsessive/compulsive. Two million are manic-depressive. Ten million are addicted to sex. If you consider wild-card afflictions like Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, and you factor in room for overlap (people suffering from more than one problem), you'll conclude that about 77% of the population is a mess. Throw in a few new quantifiable disorders, and everyone in the country will be officially and justifiably nuts.

In short, Americans are turning into annoyingly self-absorbed hypochondriacs. Authorities on the subject are somewhat split, it seems. While some diagnosed subjects are genuinely suffering from these disorders, others, it's believed, are simply justifying their anti-social behavior because they can. Go ahead and cry, says the prevailing psychological wisdom. Any trifling discomfort you may experience has been legitimized. If you're rude, short-tempered, impatient, deviant, or maladjusted, there is a diagnosis that acquits your conduct.

Perhaps you know someone that is impaired by one of these pathological ailments. And perhaps it's legitimate. I myself have been recently exploring a personality disorder called histrionic personality disorder (HPD), or hysterical personality disorder. HPD is a personality disorder which involves a pattern of excessive emotional expression and attention-seeking. These individuals are lively, dramatic, enthusiastic, and flirtatious. They may be inappropriately sexually provocative, express strong emotions with an impressionistic style, and be easily influenced by others.

This disorder occurs more frequently in women than in men, but the literature differentiates HPD according to gender. Women with HPD are described as self-centered, self-indulgent, and intensely dependent on others. They are emotionally labile and cling to others in the context of immature relationships. Females with HPD over identify with others, commonly assuring people that "[they] are the only people I feel comfortable with, or can talk to"; they project their own unrealistic, fantasied intentions onto people with whom they are involved. They are emotionally shallow and have difficulty understanding others or themselves in any depth. Selection of marital or sexual partners is often highly inappropriate. Pathology increases with the level of intimacy in relationships. These individuals are inclined to exploit physical symptoms such as sickness and fatigue, behavior associated with their incessant need for attention.

People with this disorder are usually able to function at a high level and can be successful socially and at work. However, histrionic personality disorder may affect a person's social or romantic relationships or their ability to cope with loss or failure. They often fail to see their own situation realistically, instead tending to dramatize and exaggerate. Responsibility for failure or disappointment is usually blamed on others. They may go through frequent job/life changes, as they become easily bored and have trouble dealing with frustration. Because they tend to crave novelty and excitement, they may place themselves in risky situations. All of these factors may lead to greater risk of developing depression.

The cause of this disorder is unknown, but childhood events and genetics may both be involved. Little research has been conducted to determine the biologic sources of this disorder. Psychoanalytic theories incriminate seductive and authoritarian attitudes by fathers of these patients.

The symptoms include:

- Constant seeking of reassurance.
- Excessive dramatics with exaggerated displays of emotions.
- Excessive sensitivity to criticism or disapproval.
- Inappropriately seductive behavior.
- Excessive concern with physical appearance.
- A need to be the center of attention (self-centeredness).
- Low tolerance for frustration or delayed gratification.
- Rapidly shifting emotional states that may appear shallow to others.
- Tendency to believe that relationships are more intimate than they actually are.
- Make impulsive decisions with little regard to the affect on others.
- The need to create drama or crisis in their lives to achieve significance/attention

Diagnostic criteria:

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, a widely used manual for diagnosing mental disorders, defines histrionic personality disorder as a pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

1. is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
2. interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
3. displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
4. consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
5. has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
6. shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
7. considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are.

A mnemonic that can be used to remember the criteria for histrionic personality disorder is PRAISE ME:

P - provocative (or seductive) behavior
R - relationships, considered more intimate than they are
A - attention, must be at center of
I - influenced easily
S - speech (style) - wants to impress, lacks detail
E - emotional labiality, shallowness
M - make-up - physical appearance used to draw attention to self
E - exaggerated emotions - theatrical

Treatment:

Because of the lack of research support for work on personality disorders and long-term treatment with psychotherapy, the empirical findings on the treatment of these disorders remain based on the case report method and not on clinical trials. On the basis of case presentations, the treatment of choice is psychotherapy aimed at self-development through resolution of conflict and advancement of inhibited developmental lines. Group therapy is not recommended for those with HPD because it often perpetuates histrionic behavior because the person then has an audience to play off of.

- Family therapy
- Medications
- Alternative therapies

Associated Conditions:

- Depression
- Anxiety disorders
- Panic disorder
- Somatization disorders
- Anorexia

Hopefully this will assist you in identifying abnormal behavioral patterns among people you know. To find out more in your quest, you may investigate Borderline personality disorder, Hysteria, or Narcissistic personality disorder.